The salient
beauty you’ve been chasing from the beginning of semester finally starts
responding positively to your advances. You entrap her with your alluring charm
and in no time she agrees to be your girlfriend. Two weeks down the line you
realize that there still many other suitors after her. You are now probably
wondering whether you can handle the stiff competition. Following are 6 tips on
how to successfully date an extremely beautiful lady on campus
1. Deal with your insecurities
The truth is
there will always be guys who are taller, better looking, charming, muscular
and loaded than you. That should not get you depressed and scared. She must
have found something very attractive in you before agreeing to be your girlfriend.
Inquiring about her geographical location every hour, barring her from hanging
out with certain friends, snooping on her phone or going temperamental whenever
she receives a text from another dude, will only succeed in pushing her away. So
deal with your insecurities appropriately!
If she is
looking outstanding that morning let her know how beautiful you find her in
that garb. If she makes a nice meal tell her how delicious it is. Don’t make an
error of giving her undeserved flatter every minute, like claiming you are so
into her new hairstyle when in reality it makes her look like SpongeBob. The
base line is to give genuine compliments. When you flatter her unnecessarily it
makes you look phony, no girl wants to date a spurious dude!
When you
realize there is a guy making passes at your girl don’t go threatening to kick
their ass to Lokichogio. Play the bigger man. Calmly let him know she is taken
but if he persists, sit back and let him feel like he is winning. Wait for the most opportune time when he is
with your girl preferably a public place then go up to them. Scoop your girl
off her feet with both hands then kiss her passionately for a minute. When you
done lead her away with your arm on her waist without paying any attention to
the competitor. Such public humiliation will discourage even the most
persistent guy from ever hitting on your girl!
The worst
mistake most guys make when they get hitched to a super fine-looking girl is
forgetting themselves. They stop hanging out with the boys, put less effort in
their dressing and bend over backwards in effort to please the lady. Getting
into a relationship does not mean you wholly change your lifestyle. Have a life
of your own, friends, interests and maintain your beliefs. This will enable you
to also give her the much space she needs. If you spend every minute of your
time awake with her she will soon tire having you around and think you are too
clingy. You can guess what will happen next.
As a man,
the cardinal rule is to speak less and listen more. Listen to her, understand
all about her; strengths, weakness, likes and dislikes. Most guys hold this
misconception that, satisfying a lady in the sack is all you need to stop her
from straying. Remember women are emotional beings; you need to fulfill her
emotional needs too.
When she
wants to pursue her dreams support her fully. Trying to discourage her from
participating in the campus beauty pageant because you are afraid someone might
snatch her away may backfire. Once she realizes your insecurities are hampering
her dreams then she will definitely walk away
6.Be good at something
In order to
delight in your girlfriend’s success you also need to find something you are
innately good at and pursue it fully. If you are an athlete then train hard and
win a medal or two. If you are shrewd entrepreneur then work on your start up
and grow it into a business empire. If you are successful in a particular field
then her success will not intimidate you in any way.
When your
love gets to a rocky patch and you unsuccessfully trying to mend up your
relationship, forget her and move. Hesitating to move on just because you are
afraid that you may never get such a beauty is ridiculous. As I always tell my
friends, if one appealing lady fell for you what will stop you from getting
another in future?
Have a
lovely week!
By Mark
Maina
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