Nothing
scares men like being rejected by a lady they are very attracted to. That’s why
most guys choose to keep silent about their feelings. To minimize the chances
of getting rejected, there is need to check for telltale signs and find out
whether the attraction is mutual. The following are 9 signs a lady really likes
you.
1)
Time Factor
Does she go
out of her way to create time for you despite having a tight schedule? Does she
find an excuse to meet you a lot more often these days? If the answer to the
above questions is yes then you have a chance. Ladies like spending quality
time with guys they really like. If she chooses to spend the weekend with you
on campus instead of going home or out with friends then she certainly likes
you.
2)
Body language
Does she hug
tightly with both hands or give you the one-hand hug like you are suffering
from leprosy? If a lady really likes you she will cuddle, hug for longer and
spend hours gazing into your eyes. When you meet her on the campus streets she
flashes you the secret smile. She will also go an extra mile to look great
whenever meeting you.
Next time
you meet her, suddenly grab and pull her to stand very close to you, then check
her body reactions. If she doesn’t jerk away and instead stands right there,
pupils dilated anticipating your next move, go ahead and seal the deal with a
kiss.
It’s rather
strange how ladies are attracted to guys who have other gorgeous women in their
lives but cannot stand the idea of sharing a guy they really like. If she
demands you treat her special and different from all other girls in your life
or looks sullen when you as much as hold another girl’s hand then she is so
into you.
When you are
out hanging with your boys and the lady across the room likes you, your eyes
will lock more than once. If she is in the company of a guy she will be apt to
hold him tighter while checking to see your reaction; see whether you are
getting jealous.
You know a
lady has the hots for you if she immensely enjoys your company. She laughs at
your jokes, even the silly ones. When she is emotionally down, you are the
first person she calls and by the time your conversation ends her spirits are
lifted. She also asks you to accompany her to social events where she flaunts
you to her friends, introduces you to her siblings and takes pictures with you.
Spending two hours with her feels likes two minutes leaving both of you wanting
more.
5)
Confides in you
If a lady
really likes you she will entrust you with intimate details about her life,
family and work troubles and also reveal her fears to you. She will value your
opinion on a wide spectrum of issues ranging from her career to world
economics. You are also the first person she breaks the great news to, like
winning a scholarship. You connect with her so well that your conversations
feel like heart-to-heart whispers.
How her
close friends treat you indicate precisely how she feels about you. If they
enjoy hanging out with you, excuse themselves out to give the two of you some
privacy or jokingly claim how the two of you make a great couple, then she is
absolutely feeling the vibe. However, if they seem to look bored whenever you
are around or ignore you like a lizard on the wall, do yourself a favor; run
away and never look back.
If a lady is
interested in getting hitched to you, she will readily tell you that she is
single, highlight the traits she finds most attractive about you and even
inquire about your relationship status. She may also let you know of her
upcoming birthday or remind you of Valentine’s Day and teasingly ask what gift
you are planning to get her. Times have changed, now the modern woman will
promptly declare her interest in you and find out whether the feeling is
mutual.
8)
Try make you a better man
If a lady
feels you are an eligible mate, she will try to talk you out of your
destructive habits, complain about your untidy room and talk you into taking
your studies seriously. If you are the kind of guy who feels he is smartly
dressed when in matching socks she will subtly hint on the perfect haircut for
your face and attire. The baseline is, a lady who really likes you tries to
make you a better man. Who knows, she might be grooming you to be her hubby.
A lady who
really likes you would sometimes bend her rules and do things she would never
do with other guys. She will want to
spend days she considers important with you. If she douses herself with you
cologne, left a tooth brush at your place or has your shirt which she sleeps in
every night then you have a chance with her. If she is always by your side when
you are sick, depressed or in trouble, look no further; she is unquestionably
meant for you.
Love is a
beautiful thing and life too short. If you find someone who makes you happy do
not let your fears stop you from taking a leap of faith and ride this roller
coaster we call love.
Wish you a
love-filled year!
By Mark Maina
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